Why I Don’t Expect Mother’s Day Gifts — And What I Cherish Instead as a Muslim Mum..
Mother’s Day is celebrated in many beautiful ways around the world — from flowers and cards to breakfast in bed. But as a mum who’s on a journey of intentional motherhood, I’ve come to see this day a little differently.
And that’s okay.
You see, I don’t expect my kids to get me gifts or write me a card — because I’ve come to believe that *every day* is a form of Mother’s Day.
That’s how our deen teaches us to view motherhood.
The Prophet ﷺ said : “Jannah lies beneath the feet of your mother.”
A Hadith we’ve all heard since we were little — one that’s deeply rooted in our identity, long before we even understood what it meant.
A Mother’s Day I Won’t Forget
This year, I woke up on Mother’s Day to something unexpected — but so meaningful.
My older kids had cleaned the entire house.
They knew our house help has Sundays off to be with her family, and they took it upon themselves to tidy up while I rested. No flowers. No fancy breakfast. Just **thoughtful action** born out of love and respect.
That small gesture touched my heart deeply.
Because here’s the truth: when you pour into your children daily — when you give them your presence, attention, and time — it always comes back around.
Not always immediately.
Not always in the ways you expect.
But it comes back in the form of connection, gratitude, and little acts of love like this.
What Intentional Motherhood Really Looks Like?
Intentional motherhood doesn’t mean doing it all perfectly.
It means choosing to be present, even when life is messy and your energy is low.
It means showing up again and again — even when no one is clapping.
And that choice to be present?
To be emotionally available?
To build character, connection, and compassion?
That’s a legacy you’re planting every single day, mama.
And while Mother’s Day might highlight it once a year — your kids are watching you live it daily.
A Note to the Mama Who Feels Forgotten Today..
If today didn’t come with balloons or breakfast in bed…
If you spent it breaking up sibling fights or folding laundry in silence…
I want you to know:
You are not alone.
You are seen.
And you are doing sacred, world-changing work.
The little moments — the hugs, the dua before bedtime, the quiet sacrifices — those are what shape your children.
So keep going.
Keep being present.
Keep giving your love, even if it feels like no one notices.
Because one day, they will.
And the reward — in this life and the next — is far greater than any bouquet of flowers.
Final Thoughts..
Happy Mother’s Day to every mum who’s showing up quietly but powerfully.
May Allah continue to give you strength, reward your efforts, and fill your home with love and barakah.
And if you’re a mum navigating motherhood with intention and faith, I’d love to connect with you.
Come find me on Instagram or drop me . I’m here to support you.
Until next time — stay rooted, stay present, and lead with love.
lots of love,
Fawzia